Sunday, March 18, 2007

Cherry, Cherry Pie (or Mrs. Ben Gardner kd7bcw)

Ben Gardner kd7bcw, of Little People fame, is going to be married in about 8 to 10 weeks. (The marriage was supposed to occur sooner, but there is some hang-up.) He is going to go to the Philippines to marry Cherry, the cousin of Airyn Ruiz Bell w6obb, and Sharon Ruiz Richardson kd5fjx. Her picture was briefly up on www.hamcams.com, but alas, I did not save it. (But remember, you READ it here, in The HamFanz Grudge Report first!)

The newest newlyweds are planning to live happily ever after with Ben’s Mom! Of course, Ben is trying to keep this all hush-hush, is it because he is embarrassed, or ashamed of what he is doing? Is this something a ‘morally superior’ Ham would do?

Obviously, artie introduced Ben, via computer, to his wife’s cousin, just as Carl Richardson introduced artie to Airyn, his wife’s sister. All of this sharing of the Ruiz women, in a technical sense makes all these men pimps and/or Johns. How many more women does that Philippine family have for sale? Though I do not blame the Ruiz women involved, they are smart enough to recognize when they have hit the jackpot.

Supposedly, Art Bell is paying for Ben’s trip just as he paid for Carl Richardson’s trip. There is no doubt that Ben could not afford it. When I checked the airlines, the going round trip fare was anywhere between $987 and $2000 to Manila. Will artie also pay for hotels, meals, the ceremony, etc? Who is artie going to supply with a Ruiz women next, perhaps Jim Watkins ki6gu? Jeeze, will artie pay to import a Philippine Ruiz boy toy (houseboy of course!) for moi?

Ben makes no bones about being on disability, though no one seems to know why. In fact, he lives with his mother, in his mom’s house. He claims that he lives with his mom ‘to help her out’. (Yea, right, and if you will buy that, I have a bridge for you.) I would like to know how much did he ‘help her out’ before he became disabled. (Yet he continually puts me down for trying to make a legitimate buck, and I do not have a ‘mom’ who owns a home, to live with, or ‘share’ expenses with!).

The scuttlebutt is that Ben’s mom is thrilled with the upcoming nuptials. I do not doubt this. There will now be another woman in the house to do Ben’s laundry, shopping, and other stuff, besides mom, who has been doing it for years now.

These three hams seem to believe whole-heartedly on ‘keeping it in the family’ as well as in ‘the old boys (fools?) club’. This makes the fourth Ham to marry an asian in the past year (Dan Van Hoy vr2hf, married an asian woman named Zane just last week-but her origins are as yet unknown, as is the status of how they met.)

Does anyone else find all this completely disturbing and disgusting?

4 comments:

Bill said...

If this is true, it is one of the most sickening, disgusting things I have heard in a long time. The very idea of a poor filipina girl marrying a fat, ugly, incompetent dork like Ben makes me want to blow chunks big time. Has Cherry seen what Ben looks like? Has she seen how fat he is? Why would she want to marry a fat, deluded idiot like that? And if Ben actually thinks he is attracting a woman this way, he is even more mentally impaired than I thought he was. I'm telling you, these people are fucked up!

Bill Crowell, W6WBJ said...

Evvy, as far as I am concerned, this rumor has not yet been confirmed. It could be true, or it could be a giant put-on. We probably will never know for sure unless and until Ben travels to the far east to meet and marry his putative bride.

evvy garrett said...

bill crowell w6wbj wrote:

>>>this rumor has not yet been confirmed. It could be true, or it could be a giant put-on.

Agreed, proof is in the pudding. But need I remind you that I have a pretty good track record in these things: artie going to Philippines WITH Carl (NOT the Carolinas), artie getting married, baby to be born in US, etc.

Anonymous said...

I just came across a lot of this stuff (a little late in posting) and it makes me sick. These men obviously can't get a women on their own, in their own country. So, they go to foreign countries to buy desperate, poverty stricken, young women, who most likely wouldn't give them the time of day if they themselves lived in the US. It's all about the Green Card, not love. Seeing as how this guy is on disability, how in the hell does he expect to support this woman? I thought immigration rules were that a person marrying a foreigner, had to have a certain level of income (above poverty line) in order for a Marriage Visa to be approved? He sure as heck can't do anything for this girl. Oh well, when you're desperate you're desperate. Anything goes, I guess.

 

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