Monday, June 02, 2008

More NAMPIG Probs?

It has been over a year now since Ben Gardner kd7bcw, traveled half the world to marry a YOUNG, (younger than his oldest daughter) poverty stricken, woman he had never met.

The ‘Honeymoon’ is over. They are not now ‘newlyweds’ any longer.

Yet she, Cherry Gardner, has not yet been able to access the United States. Unlike Art Bell w6obb, who was able to get his girl toy here in a few months (he probably greased many ‘needy’ palms), Ben is still waiting for his toy to arrive.

Carl Richardson kb5fjx, only had to wait a few months longer than artie did to get his woman imported. But this couple actually had a long online courtship, and probably did much of the 'footwork' along the way.

Recently, on the Little Peeps, Ben has been optimistic; hoping that all the necessary immigration paperwork for Cherry would be completed by May 21 (listen to the audio clip-available only for a few days). But, that does not seem to be the case, as she is not here.

Is there a problem? What happens if Ben ends up married to a PI woman, who, for whatever reason, cannot gain entry to the United States?

Will Ben move to the PI to live with his legal (leaving his mother, her house, & probably his SSI benefits here) wife? Will there be a ‘divorce’ (I do not think there IS such a thing in the Philippines!). Would the marriage automatically be annulled? Will Ben go back to the ‘Philippine woman catalog’ and select another item?

The thing about ‘toys’ is, they break, do not operate as expected, their colors fade, you tire of them, and eventually, they become so boring they are put in the back of the closet or given to someone else.

Ben may have a long wait to even start playing with his new toy…


r. f. burns said...

I'm sure that being over there helped Art to expedite his child bride in gaining her US residency. Ben is not over there to make sure that Cherry is doing what needs to be done. Poor Cherry is in no hurry to get to the US. She is staying with friends in Manila, biding her time, dancing at the bars, meeting boys her own age, and dragging it out as long as possible. So what if she's missed an appointment or two at the American embassy.

Anonymous said...

"Cherry" a derogatory term in the Philippeans, will not join Ben but she will claim her inheritance when he is no longer with us. Mark my word.


Anonymous said...

There should be a law against wedding anyone less than your kid's age! my god, how pathetic!

Anonymous said...

It is odd that such bias and resents exist with such colorful acronyms from some. Are they really PIG's? Who started such demeanings? Are EGO's of some in life, as now, need to be-little themselves to such extreme propagandas. I question those with prejudice in understanding life. Old or young.

r. f. burns said...

C'mon Anon, You arn't even trying to keep up. Click on NAMPIG under LABELS to the left for the history. NAMPIG = North American Men Buying Philippine Island Girls. Evvy invented it and it's a play on the NAMBLA organisation which I'm sure you're familiar with. Look at your membership card for the meaning, or just Google it. Duh !

N6UGY Dennis Flora said...

I want to be with you,

but your millions of miles away.

i wish you would call just to ask about my day.

it would make things so much better if i could hear you voice,

I guess i can't complain too much,

after all this was my choice.

i wish i could hold you in my arms and look in to your eyes.

i promise i will always be true to you and never tell you lies.

its so hard to go to sleep without you by my side.

my tears are the only thing ill ever try to hide.

i lie awake in bed as the tears stream down my face,

they keep going until the hit my pillow case.

I Miss You...

evvy garrett said...

N6UGY Dennis Flora, for those who do not know, is a potential MAMPIG...

Anonymous said...

evvy garrett said...
"N6UGY Dennis Flora, for those who do not know, is a potential MAMPIG..."

Evvy, Dennis, like Artie's Benbo, is a fool if he believes the FB will come to him. I wonder how much money both have sent to their 'beloved' FB's so far.?

Have Fun, Losers!


Dennis Flora N6UGY said...

Wow ! Thank you all so very much for your love and consideration and especially you Steve.

Our amazing love has to be manicured and maintained on a daily basis, and if anything, Tessa and I have been overdoing it a little maybe so far, but we simply cannot help it. We are making up for lost time now the way we see it, and we both deserved this so much. I have never in my life, met such a warm, compassionate, and loving woman as Tessa, she has stolen my heart. When I was about 18 or so, watching my silly brother go thru marriage after marriage (on 6th now), I promised myself that I would only marry once, and it had to be such a strong bond, that it would last forever, or I would not enter into it. I knew exactly what kind of heart I was looking for, and it took me 36 years to finally find that very special woman with such a heart. My heart and soul belong to my sweet Tessa now, and my new dream is to fill every day, of the rest of her life, with happiness, joy, love, respect, trust, and a companionship that she has only dreamed about. We already set a plan in place to get her here with me, so that we can hold each others hands as we walk down the road to eternity together. We sincerely hope that everyone out here on the ham radio can accomplish what we have, and find your perfect life partner as we have, and we wish you all love, joy, and happiness forever. Dennis and Tessa (Maria)


Dennis N6UGY

evvy garrett said...

Dennis N6UGY wrote:
>>>and it took me 36 years to finally find that very special woman with such a heart.

I'm not trying to 'knock' love. BUT, if you love her so much, why don't you move there? Love should be able to flourish anywhere, yes?

Many marriages have begun online, but that was only the FIRST step in the relationships.

There is a fine line between love and fantasy.

It it's 'too good to be true' then it probably isn't.

Rescuing someone from abject poverty (ie they have no choice really), is buying the person.

Buyer beware...

Anonymous said...

yeah.. So how big is the age difference between Ben and his new "toy".. How long do you give until she splits with a new guy her own age? So does "benbo" have more than one kid??? Poor stupid lady (ladies?).. she must have been real drunk to have mated with him!


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