Sunday, March 13, 2005

Still one more Worshiper at the Temple of the Loop?

Trish - ki4dvf was on 3840 last night: with Big Ben - kd7bcw and artie - w60bb, for the first time ever!!! I just heard about this from someone else tonight.

I'm thrilled Trish got her Extra license; I know for a fact that she's been working hard for a long time to achieve this goal.

But am wondering WHY she didn't tell her cyber-friends? Why she didn't send out an email or drop into messenger to let us know she'd taken the test and passed? That she was gonna do her first transmit, get on air last night???

Also, apparently she's 'upgraded' her equipment considerably from just a couple of weeks ago; she has a 1600 loop!!! And has gotten an amp!!! And she never told us!

Is she a hot shot HAM now? Too good for the rest of us? (The 'us' she was a big part of for years!)

Hmmm. Has Trish crossed that line (it's looking that way!). Is she back on the bcw list? I know she's 'back' in with Big Ben, she's said as much. Her first HamCams pic was posted by Big Ben just recently. So Trish made 'the right side' of artie there; must have pleased her greatly. (Hmm, she didn't tell us about that either.)

Which means, she's not far from cozying up to artie. (Which may have been her goal since the beginning, consciously or sub-consciously - remember the trip to Pahrump???) Probably not far from being invited back to the Mental Hens.

It's amazing to me how quickly some people forget being stabbed in the back! How soon they return for more. And how many of 'em do this just to be able to 'rub shoulders' with a celebrity??? How very sad!

And if so, what must artie think of such people??? I would hope he'd take pity on those with such 'empty' lives. Or does he suck it up like a kid does cotton candy; enjoying every bite of it, and looking for more?

And, no, I am not jealous of Trish; her license, her loop, her amp. I am disappointed that she's turned out to be just one more 'fair-weather' friend. I think I've run into this MORE in HAM radio circles than I have anywhere else, at least the 3840 circle. (And, over the years, I've also made some very good friends; that I am loyal to, and are loyal to me.)

BUT, I'm getting tired of encouraging these folks; spending HOURS on messenger or on the phone, listening to their hysterics, soothing their hurt feelings. Or just being there as they rant over perceived wrongs. Of supporting them in their endeavors, only to get the cold shoulder when they achieve their own goals.

I didn't record last night, so I don't have a copy of it for 'history'. And actually, perhaps that's better; I'm funny that way, I REMEMBER how people have treated ME...




Anonymous said...

Now Evvy don't you think you should talk to Trish before jumping to conclusions?


Anonymous said...

Evvy Garrett,
I pity you!! You are a very confused mixed up person. You don't have a clue as how incorrect you are regarding almost everything you post in your "Grudge Reports".
Your "Grudge Reports" are as phoney your introspection. You should be embarrassed to think people fall for your drivel. You have no shame for being a misinformed self-proclaimed critic, and so-called poet. You seemingly have no insight to people let alone journalism.

If you really are a renown poet, then please follow that endeavor.
You have attempted repeatedly to insult many people. You have attacked almost all hams with your cutzie names, and much more. You seem to be very concerned as to who may be kissing who and what. Why, are you envious? Grow up !!
Most reasonable people understand the source and ignore such ignorant attempts to put others down. I am confident most people see through your jealously, and realize your real efforts to obtain finances through donations. If you actually dislike us as your comdemnation seems to suggest then why would you continue to follow our communications? Money?
I personally have absolutely no respect for such a waste of human flesh and consumption of Earthy elements, as you are representing, and using as an organism. You derive your energy from your distortions of other's enjoyment, and talents.
Perhaps, a "Temple" of some sort might save from your hateful demons.
Please quit sending me "Grudge Report" links, or any of your trash. ie: so-called polls (give us a break)
I suggest you find some other target for your hatred and ignorance, or financial scheme to be dumped upon. Ham radio operators are above your abilities to fully socially, or mentally understand.
No reply is desired from you whatsoever.
You should also be advised that you walk upon "thin ice". It might be a shame to all those "friends of your's" if you fell through.
Ben Kd7bcw (feel free to post this in it's entire form)

Anonymous said...

That last annon post was a real cut n paste hack job. It was all taken out of context. Perhaps Evvy is the annon trickster trying to make it look like Ben is threatening her. The veiled threat was originally for Bill wb6bnq (who is an arrogant pest & has nasty skelletons in his closet).

Anonymous said...

Yeah. I agree.

evvy said...

Ahhh, suffer the fools!

Do you not see where it says: (feel free to post this in it's entire form)???

I admit though, that I inadvertently posted this as 'anon' because that's what the 'default' for the blog's comments was set on. It has now been changed (for the 'owner'). So this mistake won't happen again. All who know me, are very aware that I don't hide behind an anon, ever!

But I digress; I have the original email, and will forward it to you as an attachment, (since Ben so kindly gave his permission), so it will include the original headers.

You may email me at for a copy of this. (I will not reply to other correspondence regarding this Blog.)

(btw, I do not write editorials unless I have the 'back up materials' in my possession! I am really quite meticulous about this.)

But, do you really want absolute, positive, proof that one of your 'own' is an emotionally unstable BULLY, as this email proves? I think not, 'cause all you'd have to do is open your eyes, and/or ask Ben some hard questions and check on the validity of his replies. Something none of you have apparently done...

ADUH!!! The email was sent TO me, and the 'veiled threat' was FOR me.

Anonymous said...

So what? Congrats to Trish. Getting your Extra is hard. Getting an amp is expensive. Putting up a loop is work.


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